What do you do when your friend won’t listen?
This happens almost to everyone, not only friend who doesn’t want to listen but also other relation. (wife) (mom) (sibling)
So how could we get our friend to listen to us? Human mind works the other way we think. so let’s get to the point
- Listen Never ask anyone to listen at the very first conversation never, instead you Listen to them. Let them realize how could you so passionate about paying attention. Try not to interrupt with any words only with nodding your head and saying okay, alright.. etc.
- Curiosity Human mind’s curiosity and excitement you can never make satisfied, I mean your 100% paying attention and silence will definitely trigger them with lot more questions inside them. Wait for it they will return to you asking answers.
- Exception In-spite of these above ways could not workout, you still remain calm and move on to your work, keep an eye on them and do not initiate the conversation, this will work for sure .
- Understanding Very Important one, your friend doesn’t want to listen to you does not mean he/she hates or irritates you, actually the right intention is to expecting you to understand their emotions and validate positively. They higher level of emotions are understood by someone (you) their fall back to you.
- Fun Part Wife gets angry or shouting it only means they are expecting husband to listen more.
- Solution You wanna be part of solution or problem for someone in life ? Listen and Pay Attention
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